As painful as it is to think about losing your faithful friend, you should prepare for the inevitable time when your pet dies. The time you spend planning now may prevent regrets later.
Unfortunately, pets don’t always die peacefully and painlessly in their sleep. Your pet may develop a disease that gradually worsens over time or he may be injured quickly in an accident. Decide how much treatment you would want your dog to undergo and the quality of life you want him to maintain. In what circumstances would you consider euthanasia to ease your pet’s suffering?
If you have some time left with your pet, think about how you would like to spend his last months, weeks, or days. Some owners say goodbye over time by nursing their beloved animal companions through chronic illnesses. Others plan special meals and outings or take photographs.
Children are very perceptive, so expect them to notice changes in your pet and in your family’s routine. Be honest about your pet’s health and let your children know how you feel. They look to you to learn what feelings are appropriate and how best to respond.
Children also need to say goodbye in their own way, so when it seems appropriate, ask for their opinions as you plan. Their ideas often help the entire family cope with loss.
