You’ve finally caved to your kids’ nonstop begging for a dog and now are wondering how to find the perfect pet—one that won’t mind being rolled on, dressed up, or climbed over.
Before you pick out that adorable pup, spend some time learning what kind of dog best fits your needs. Your veterinarian can help you narrow the field and can suggest places in your area to get a well-tempered, healthy puppy or dog for your family.
Even if you don’t have children, you may want a dog who’s compatible with kids. Consider your lifestyle: Do you plan to start a family down the road? Do children often visit your home? Is your neighborhood home to many families? If so, it’s particularly important to choose a kid-friendly dog.
So how do you recognize a child-friendly dog?
The ideal family dog is sociable, moderately energetic, and attentive, but not excitable. Avoid nervous, hyperactive dogs and overly assertive dogs who try to put their mouths and teeth around your wrists, hands, or arms—even if they don’t try to bite.
You want a dog who’s not afraid of loud noises. So when you meet prospective pets, clap your hands or drop something noisy and watch their reactions. Your new pet also shouldn’t mind people touching her, especially on her feet and face. If she nips when you stroke her on these areas, she’s more likely to strike out and harm a child.
If you’re getting a dog from a shelter, ask the staff to help you pick one who would do well with children. And ask if they know why the dog was given up for adoption. For example, if your dog is a fear-biter, you need to know. It can save your family heartache later.
If you’re buying a puppy from a breeder, ask if the pups were socialized with children. Call families who’ve purchased puppies from the breeder to see if the puppies get along well with their kids. Don’t pick the boldest or shiest pup from the litter—choose one who’s even-tempered and mildly submissive. And try to meet your pooch’s parents—they should be even-tempered, too.
When is a child ready for a dog?
Veterinarians and dog trainers agree that it’s best to wait until your children reach school age before getting a pet. Becoming part of a new family is stressful enough for a dog without affectionate but often rough toddlers in the picture.
When the time is right, take your children to meet prospective pets. That way you can see which dogs are friendly or skittish and how they respond to your children.
It’s also a good idea to talk to your kids about the responsibilities of pet ownership before you bring home a new pet. After all, you may want your children to help with daily feeding, watering, and walking—and they need to know that up front. But remember, no matter how responsible your children, they still need your help and supervision. Be fair to your dog!
What breeds are best for children?
Golden and Labrador retrievers, Beagles, and Shetland sheepdogs as well as many mixed breeds make good pets for children. Toy breeds, some terrier breeds, and breeds that are used as guard dogs may be less tolerant. Ask your veterinarian for more advice on breeds.
No matter what kind of dog you choose, teach your children to treat her respectfully and gently. Children can push even the most tolerant dog too far if they hurt her.
